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To me that seems like it’s over but he’s just taking the easy way out by not discussing it. If i were you i would have called it quits already. Good luck
Would a divorce really be a bad thing though? Love if you aren’t happy then you aren’t happy, their is only so much you can try in a relationship. Can you see yourself happier in the long term getting a divorce?
My partner and I have seperate lives but we are best friends at the same time.
Have a big talk with him maybe bring up the topic whether he wants a divorce or not!
I just went through this after many years of putting myself last to everyone else but myself and my own happiness.
You need to do what's best for you. Selfish as it sounds and it will be hard at first. Be strong, put yourself first and charge on x
This is exactly my life, right down to a pat when i try to hug him
I also dont know what to do
We dont have sex as im preg.. so thats no sex for 7 months
This waa our relationship too although I now think of him as my best friend. The lack in communication and affection was going on for years. I ended up in an affair and went to counseling. I also discovered my husband was having affairs. I guess we are now in an open relationship but it doesn’t get discussed. I don’t recommend going down the path we choose. But we are both happy and parent really well together.
Sorry you’re going through it. It seems that his priorities don’t really include you. Was it always this way? Would he agree to see marriage counselling? Do you know his love language?