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Crush on my Doctor

Anyone else had one?

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No! They are strictly there to provide me with a service! I don't go around getting crushes on my pizza delivery guy or servo attendant. I treat them respectfully for The service they provide

 That’s true, they are there to provide a service . But can you help who you develop a crush on? You can have the crush and still be respectful 🤷‍♀️

Also, you can’t really compare the pizza delivery person to your doctor. Your doctor you talk about very personal issues with. You go to them for support. It’s very common to develop a crush on a doctor.

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 I talk about my day with the servo dude, I talk about my vagina health and constipation with my doctor... No! Just no! If I'm telling him my vagina smells like fish and has discharge, I'm not thinking of him in a crush type way at all! And he's telling me it's a bacterial infection from my husband doing oral sex. Again NOT crushing. Not at all. No no no. Yucky 😂
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 ^Most people do not crush on their doctor. But just because it hasn’t happened to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. I have myself developed a crush for the guy at my local deli and we did hook up a few times
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 I hooked up with the video ezy guy many years ago. After the store closed we'd have sex on the bench 😂
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Me secretly but the doctor also and now we’re together happened 2 years ago but he wasn’t a GP

OP What was he?
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 Oh do tell please! Did he leave his family for you, or was he single? I thought these things only happened on TV! 😂
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 Was he single when you got together? Good luck if not, once a cheater always a cheater. There will always be young, pretty girls around and if he has started before in that situation it’s highly likely that he will again.
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 He was single, he worked in the ICU but was in ED. It was actually like an instant attraction thing. I had a fractured ankle and he fixed it then I bumped into him outside the hospital and it all went from there
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 Good onya darl. These things happen for a reason ❤❤
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 It was the best thing that’s ever happened. Especially coming from a severe DV situation and having a gentle, caring man. What a change it is. I have never felt so settled and happy in my life neither have my children
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 ^That's fantastic. All the best to you and the fam xxx
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Yes, a few times a few different doctors. Of course it’s a crush nothing more and I’ve eventually gotten over them. It’s happened when I’ve been very unwell and the doctors have been very caring. It’s a kind of transference thing. Quite common.

When I was a teenager. It's not gonna happen babe. Sorry

OP, is he single? Would you ever contemplate making a move...?

My sister has a crush on her doctor. She’ll go to him for Pap smears and boob checks. I think a tiny part of her thinks he’s going to leave his family for her haha.

 As long as it remains a fantasy and she doesn't act on it
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OP Oh god I’d never get Pap smears done 🤣
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