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When someone passes

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I want a good way to remember them for myself. I thought about getting a small tattoo but that's too public - I'd have to answer questions about what it means everytime some saw it. I want something secret just for me. Any ideas?


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2 years ago
I bloody hate it when people ask what my tattoos mean! Are you grieving someone that you don’t want anyone to know about?

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2 years ago
Yes

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2 years ago
After my parents passed, i got a tattoo on my wrist. People might wonder what it's about but they don't ask

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2 years ago
Maybe their name in a different language or a symbol that reminds you of them

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2 years ago
Can't say I've ever had someone ask what my tattoos mean. They would get told "they mean I like them so I got them" πŸ˜‚. I have a butterfly, a crown, a rose and my kids names and I'm currently waiting for the tattoo shop to open back up so I can get one for my cousin

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2 years ago
I've never wanted a tattoo more than I do right now πŸ˜‚

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2 years ago
Plant a tree?

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2 years ago
In WA there is a memorial park where people are able to pick a tree and place a plaque under it in memory of a loved one. We did this for my FIL. Its a wonderful idea πŸ’•

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2 years ago
Where is this park please?

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2 years ago
It's through Bowra & O'dea memorial groves and the location is Beckenham Memorial Park. I think if you type in trilliontrees.org you will find more information. It's a wonderful idea. We got a plaque made up from bowra and odea, took it to the location, picked a tree and drove the plaque into the ground. We go several times a year to put flowers down and tidy up around our tree. It's worth looking into x

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2 years ago
It's at the Beckenham Memorial Park. We were given the information by Bowra and O'dea and we had them make up a plaque for us to put under our chosen tree. If you go to trilliontrees.org.au and click on memorial groves, you should be able to get more info xx

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2 years ago
Brilliant idea πŸ’•

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2 years ago
Thanx for the tip

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2 years ago
I got a charm on my bracelet, the letter N. I think people assumed it was for NaN, it was for someone else I was grieving. It was easy to go along with Nan. But I knew who it was for.

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2 years ago
πŸ’•

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2 years ago
A locket with their photo in it, hidden under a photo of a sunset or whatever scene makes you think of them. People might ask to see inside the locket but won’t see your hidden photo.

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2 years ago
Is there something that reminds you of that person that you could get a tattoo of that’s inconspicuous enough no one will ask questions but that is special enough you think of them everytime you see it? Like a bird, butterfly, feather, tree/flower, animal?

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2 years ago
Get the tattoo somewhere private then

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2 years ago
πŸ‘