SAHM with a toddler, married to a cold, unempathetic, distant man. Should I stay or should I go?
Answered 9 months ago
I am a 26 yr old stay at home mum and have been with 29 yr old hubby for past 6 years. We have a little two year old girl together.
Can count on one hand how many times we have been intimate in past two years - he just doesn't get the urge apparently.
When I'm sick, he doesn't take time off work to help out, won't clean or take care of me or help much with our daughter.
If I'm upset or anything he just ignores me and keeps on scrolling through videos on his phone (facebook, reddit, etc).
Very cold, unempathetic and extremely distant. Like living with a brick wall sometimes. I wonder if he's on the spectrum?
Just getting over it. Feel like he's killing my "spark" but he's great with daughter and she LOVES him so I feel so much guilt over that :/
Have an answer?
I’ve stayed and I regret it. Ours are 15, 8 and 3.
Should have left many years ago.
I promise you your daughter will be fine. She will still have a relationship with him as long as you continue to acknowledge he’s a good dad.