I can’t go into specifics but just that he has no stake in it. If we sold none of that would be split and it would go back in to the next property I got so I would retain the money again essentially.

Yes I know technically it should be split 50/50 but I kinda feel like me keeping the house gives him more cash and he’s better able to secure a good apartment with a small enough mortgage to mean he wouldn’t be forced to have roommates.

I can’t go into too many more details for fear of being found out, but let’s just say, I don’t pay to live in our current house and never will. This property became an investment when that opportunity came up.
Which is why I also feel like I should give him extra because I will be fine financially, he will go from easy street to kinda struggling. I don’t want to see him struggle but I also don’t want to be financially responsible for him anymore.
But I want him as our kids father to live well enough. I’m worried I’ll end up a push over in divorce as I was in the marriage.
But I also do want to be a little generous.

I don’t know my heads a mess right now. It hasn’t been for the last two weeks leading up to this talk.

I think given you will be okay financially to offer to buy the house out, give him a fair price since you will be fine. This will keep the relationship ammicable and save issues later on.