How important is sex to you?
Answered 6 months ago
Last night my husband told me he’s not happy in our relationship because sex twice a week isn’t enough. He wants it every night and would prefer twice a day. He also doesn’t like that I don’t wear lingerie to bed. I said am I not good enough as I am? Am I so unattractive that I have to dress up for you? I asked why doesn’t he dress up for me and of course he had no answer to that. We both work, have kids and show affection in lots of different ways E.g. cuddling on couch, holding hands, kissing. He loves me, He just wants more sex. I’m feeling really pressured and insecure now.
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Personally for me it's important to have that physical connection and intimacy. For example I have had sex about 5 times over 2019 and felt like I had to beg for it each time, and because of this I am really unhappy with my relationship and I feel like I've lost interest in my husband too. If he moved out tomorrow id honestly be like mehhhh.