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Guests wanting to invite more people to your occasion- advice please?

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If you invite someone to your family function (Xmas or Easter) and they want to bring along their family- siblings, parents (that you don't even know), How do politely say no without it causing a fuss?


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2 years ago
Are they inviting people you don't know? Is that the problem?

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2 years ago
Yes. People I don't know. I just don't want my children around people I don't know, in my home. I am very protective.

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2 years ago
We always get a few extras in the extended family - like an aunt’s mother in law who would be alone otherwise, or friends visiting from overseas and it’s never been a problem. However, everyone brings food and if there is a secret Santa the person bringing them brings extra gifts for their guests. We also take turns hosting, so it always seems to work out.

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2 years ago
Yes my household is the same. Everyone brings a plate and BYO drinks so it's never that much of a fuss. I do up a menu a few weeks prior and tell guests who needs to bring what dish (salad, potato bake or whatever - nothing extravagant) We always have way too much food so there is always room for more people. I would think of it as extended family, meeting new people and sharing new experience with new people. Why not just go with it? They could turn out to be amazing people x

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2 years ago
Ask them to contribute food and drink to help make up for it, and if you do secret Santa, they are responsible for that too.

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2 years ago
Is it a big deal?

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2 years ago
I wouldn't. I get sick of being left with all the work Why wood i want to pick up after extras i don't know

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2 years ago
That is downright rude!! Surely people aren't that rude?!!!
If it was me I'd withdraw their invitation for being disrespectful.

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2 years ago
Sorry I budgeted for x amount of people

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2 years ago
Some guests are weird