Have you cut a shitty sibling out of your life?
Answered 12 days ago
My sister is a bad egg. She’s done drugs. Stolen from family and been involved in some really shifty stuff. Anyone else have a shitty sibling and have you cut them out of your life? My house was robbed and i was told she had something to do with it, though she swears black and blue otherwise. She’s seriously just a typical no good person and i’m over it!!
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Please everyone, remember we are all human, and only human.
Never invite her over
Cut contact no calls, texts, emails, letters, skype nothing. Go cold turkey.
Dont ask about her to anyone and change the subject people will get the point eventually or spell it out. "I no longer consider ..... family I dont discuss her nor wish to hear what .... is doing"
I managed to escape and call police from a neighbours house. I’ve had an AVO for the last 7 years and haven’t spoken to him since.
My beautiful mum sadly passed away almost 2 years ago, but this horrific situation is still fresh in my mind. Sorry I probably should have put a trigger warning on this…
But just because someone is blood, doesn’t mean you have to cop abuse, and toxic behaviour. I’ve never been able to forgive him, and still suffer from anxiety and PTSD
I will say, in my experience, it doesn't stop you being angry and it doesn't stop others from talking to you to you about them...
They are not the kind of people I want around my kids.
Unfortunately they still only contact me when they want something.
~ a member of the family was diagnosed with late stage cancer, and SIL the NEXT DAY after the family was told, announced her dr thought she had a heart issue that could be serious. Turned into nothing.
~at another family wedding told everyone she was separating from her husband, (never happened)
~ announced her 2nd pregnancy at a funeral
~ at a mile stone birthday event, stood in the corner crying as loud as possible till she got noticed. Her husband (poor bugger) just walked as far away from her as possible. She continued till someone consoled her. I mean loud. Could hear her over the chatter and music at a bar!
~ the same week I had my first baby, announced she was pregnant again
It goes on and on. 15 years of it, as really added up.