I just can't have sex with my husband?
Answered 7 months ago
I had an affair and now just cannot bring myself to have sex with my husband? We used to have sex quite a lot, then I had an affair and he suspects that I did, and now I just can't seem to want to have sex with him? I do love him but don't want sex anymore? What can I do ? I don't want to separate with / from him and don't want him to seek out a sex partner either ? I just don't know what to do?
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Otherwise I would seek counseling individually and come to terms with the guilt from your affair.
Disclosures from an affair can be deeply hurtful.
I had affairs. I couldn’t stop at the one and ended up in several affairs before I finally got caught.
Don't tell just to relieve your guilt, you need to do the work. What you've done changes you're marriage ..... forever, it'll never be forgotten.