My son is getting baptized at my ex wife’s church and he wants me there. Only problem is my wife now hates a yo-yo do with my ex wife. She doesn’t like me blending over there at all. I try to keep our interactions to a minimum but it has caused a lot of issues with my wife anytime things end up taking a bit longer than needed or we talk longer than needed or she shows up more than needed, if she comes drops off my son and needs to use the restroom she hates it, if she wants to see his room she hates it. Little things we don’t ever go any further than that. But the tension it causes at home is a lot! Now my son is getting baptized in my ex wife’s church since his Pool of friends and family is there. He wants me to attend because it’s very important to him. I I always invite my wife, my ex invites her too. But she just doesn’t like it and on top of that makes me feel so crappy for attending these things I can never fully enjoy anything on my sons side fully because i am always fearful of how we will fight. I don’t n le what to do, she is not a bad person in many other areas she is great but this one is seriously destroying me. I’ve talked to her more than I can count about this and how important it is to me to have a better co printing relationship. She is quick to suggest alternate options all the time. “Why doesn’t he get pabtised here in our church too so we can attend” everything is always 2 separate things. And for most things I am ok with it but some things we just can’t to 2 events all the time. Please help with advice. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Should I just let my ex wife know we just can’t blend this way and that’s that. Or am I being too soft on my wife, and not allowing my son to feel his side of his moms family matters to me too?