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. Tonight i saw my husband murstabating to porn while i was sleeping next to him. It hurt me a lot. What should i do.

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Im pregnant, me and my husband have sex one in a week because im sick as i am in first trimester.


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1 year ago
Help him out, geez he is human and has needs too. If you cant fufill them then why cant he play by himself. On the bright side atleast he isnt going elsewhere.

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1 year ago
Spot on.

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1 year ago
I'm not a sex slave put there for him every time he wants a bit. We have plenty of sex already (daily) and if I put out every time he wanted it, I wouldn't be able to walk

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1 year ago
^ your answer isn’t even relevant!

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1 year ago
So is the thread OP saying to just give it to him whenever he wants?

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1 year ago
Omg, this isn’t about her giving it up for him whenever he wants, it’s about him jerking off next to her. You’re not understanding the problem. No one is saying she should let him have her whenever he wants.

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1 year ago
Why does she need to help him out?

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1 year ago
She doesn’t need to help him out, but if she doesn’t, he should be allowed to take care of himself.

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1 year ago
Sure. In private

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1 year ago
Talk to him! I would have said something then and there!

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1 year ago
Why? And say what? He’s not doing anything wrong.

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1 year ago
She clearly feels like he is! So she should have asked to join or why he didn’t want sex or anything

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1 year ago
I didnt want to riun his moment and didnt think of a way to say anything so i just pretended to. Sleep

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1 year ago
^ You people are clearly used to your husbands jacking off then

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1 year ago
Nothing wrong with Jacking off.

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1 year ago
There is nothing wrong with jacking off in private.

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1 year ago
^agree. I don't mind hubby doing it, as long as he doesn't do it next to me while I'm trying to sleep

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1 year ago
Who gives a shit? You’re asleep! Let him do it where he’s comfortable.

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1 year ago
No he doesn’t because we have sex every day. But if I’m on my period he can go for it. It is a normal thing you know. Don’t know why you’re all so annoyed.

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1 year ago
I assume it's because it was while she was in the bed, not the act it's self. He probably thought she was asleep and wouldn't know. Let him know it bothers you. If he keeps doing it I suggest doing something he hates, for example cut your toe nails in bed while he is next to you, and make sure a few bits get in his side of the bed. Have a poo while he is in the shower, after bubs is here leave your dirty pads in folded in an open bin for him to see. If he won't respect boundaries you don't have to either.

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1 year ago
^ that shit is disgusting, him jacking off is perfectly normal..also, why are you suggesting she poos while he is in the shower? How is that going to hurt him?

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1 year ago
If he won't respect boundaries why should she?

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1 year ago
😂😂👍

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1 year ago
I still don’t get the poo while he showers comment. If he’s in the shower, how will he know if she’s pooing and why would he care?

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1 year ago
Ffs she's being sarcastic

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1 year ago
Lol

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1 year ago
He really should have left the room to do that

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1 year ago
Find an agony aunt on Facebook and ask the question there.

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1 year ago
Lol. That would solve the problem.

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1 year ago
I don't understand the problem at all. It's not a crime to masterbate and have needs. Perhapse you are the problem being too emotional about a basic human need. He could go elsewhere, but hasnt so that speaks volumes. Let him have his time. Its not hurting anyone.

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1 year ago
Yep agree

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1 year ago
Do you fiddle with yourself on the toilet or in the back shed? The bed is the most comfortable spot. I really don’t see the problem.

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1 year ago
He’s disrespectful

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1 year ago
No he’s not. If he was disrespectful he’d do it infront of her while she was awake. At least he had the decency to wait til she was asleep. Stop being a prude.

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1 year ago
My husband masturbates in the shower, or if we are all asleep, the lounge room. I don't mind if he does it, but I would be a bit annoyed if it was in our bed while I was there.

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1 year ago
Why would you be annoyed by him doing it infront of you? I really don’t get why? Are you grossed out by it?

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1 year ago
Maybe , just maybe, he knows you’ve been sick and didn’t want to wake his pregnant sick wife who was asleep and took care of it himself.

What’s the actually problem? It sounds pretty considerate to me

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1 year ago
I agree with you.

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1 year ago
He’s disrespectful

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1 year ago
Disrespectful?? Do women not realise blue balls are a real thing!! I'm pregnant, suffering severe HG so I Ain't having sex, I know my husband is masturbating to porn and I don't care at all. He isn't hounding me for it and I'm cool with that.

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1 year ago
You're entitled to your opinion as is everyone else

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1 year ago
I really want to know why OP was hurt by this. What's the problem here?

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1 year ago
Of all the things he could do, I'd rate this as pretty low on the totem pole. I'd just let it go, to be honest.

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1 year ago
How can you see him if you were sleeping next to him. maybe you dreamt it

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1 year ago
🤣🤣

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1 year ago
Just a thought here but maybe it woke her up

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1 year ago
Just talk to him about it. Express your concerns and come to a compromise that works for both of you. He might have just been too lazy to get up, or wanted to feel you close to him as he hasn’t been getting much sexual intimacy from you.

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1 year ago
If he’s masturbating next to you he’s obviously not getting enough from you. I’m a guy. It’s not all about sex. But that’s a pretty desperate measure to be doing it next to you

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1 year ago
Desperate my ass. He's a pig and should have left the room

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1 year ago
I personally have no problem with porn and that wouldn’t bother me much but I think he should have gone to another room not do it next to you while you’re asleep.

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1 year ago
Thanku. It just hurt me because i would have helped him if he just asked. I dont have a problem helping him cum. Thats why hurt

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1 year ago
^this

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1 year ago
Just ask him to leave the room.

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1 year ago
I understand that he has needs.
Even though we dont have sex everyday. I giv him blowjobs and help him come when ever he requests or when ever we get free time. So him. To do that right next to me hurt me.