Family only wants you in their life when it suits them
I blocked their ph number and no communication and feel better

I don’t tell people why I haven’t gone back to work. People thing we are on an average income when really my husband made 600k last year. It’s not even financially worth me going back to work. I run around on errands when my husband needs it but that’s it.

I hate the term fur baby and when someone says it, I want to punch them in the face.

Work mates bringing their baby to work on maternity leave and passing the baby and saying here’s Aunty ( insert name) she will feed you

If I told people that I still go to Kmart just to browse, they would hate me.

I dislike churchy people. I think they're all hypocrites.

Part of me feels bad that we lie about Easter bunny and Father Christmas. It just seems so weird to tell our kids about honesty then lie to their faces for years???

That we are in the best financial shape we have ever been. Was smart enough to save an emergency that would last a year. We both have well paying jobs and are cruising through this COVID-19 disaster.

I usually tell people & then they hate me

I don’t hate someone I know lol. I just think your experience is clearly not someone else’s so it’s personal bias that your annoyed at of others but exhibiting your own personal bias.

As for your first no argument or debating... sahm staff have already provided you with a space for your two confessions, that can’t be debated.
It’s actually what the site is most popular for.

Now as for my own confession ,aka dirty little secret -that I don’t mind anyone wanting to comment on lol- but i pick my nose and eat it.
So gross I know it, but it doesn’t stop me. For some reason disposing if it any other manner grossed me out mroe

I am going to my dads funeral and I’m taking both of my teenage kids to use up the ten people rule (even though my daughter is fine with not going), so his sister doesn’t get to go. She was a bully to me and called me a bitch when I was a child, she is mentally unstable and I don’t want her there.

Honestly, secret confession

I just dont see the good in people anymore and society as a whole. Coronavirus aside, because Ive felt this way for a few years now people are just cruel... I don't expect people to understand how could you, you are not me. And that's okay, I am not wrong for feeling this way given my experiences but I wish I didn't feel this way. I miss being happy, getting sleep and being free of this darkness. Having energy and actually living...Sorry just had to let it out. No need to comment.

My niece is a complete shithead. She is rude, arrogant, smart alec, horrible little girl. Her mannerisms are disgraceful and she is never disciplined. I limit the amount of exposure my kids have to her. I notice a distinct change in them after they’ve spent any length of time with her. She needs a good talking to in my opinion and some strong discipline. I’ve never met someone so rude.

I am sick of my friends going on and on about their premy babies. Their babies are now 7, 8, 12. They were born 6-8 weeks early and met all their milestones and are just like any normal kid yet I have to see fb memories all the time and listen to their stories of what a tough start to life they had,..over and over.......

I need a break from life and the constant demands. But to admit that would mean Im failing as a mum so i dont...

This is good! I hate the way older people always blame younger people and vice versa. Especially at the moment I see people from both age groups being idiots. Older people in their walking groups not distancing, younger people at the bus stop not distancing. There's a shortage of toilet paper and one of my locals has reported older people going in every single day for pensioner hour and buying their one packet- every day. I saw a young person with a packet ring their mum crying saying I finally found someone.

I am more than happy to give my kids an entire tv day. Especially at the moment. Judge me all you like. We’re all happy.

I lie about having an appointment if certain friends call & say 'are you busy?' I know they're going to ask me to run errands or look after their kids. Do it once, I end up being used as a 24/7 unpaid assistant/babysitter.

I avoid one friends' kids spending time with mine or them coming to my house. They're undisciplined, violent monsters. Last time they moved through my house like a search & destroy operation, tipping stuff out or breaking it.

We lie about our finances so no one asks for a loan. They think we're poor but we we're doing really well. I have zero sympathy because it's their own fault & some make fun of our frugal choices.

This one is truly horrible - I am secretly delighted when I hear about shit things happening to my SIL. She ruined my wedding, mental health &: relationship with PIL just for attention. Her & her DH look down on us & ignore our kids because we're not good enough for them. If I could make you understand what I've been put through by that bitch you'd say 'i get it'.

I hate dogs. Every time I tell someone they try to convince me I don’t hate dogs, I just haven’t met the right dog. Nah. I hate them. Not interested.

I think my best friend and her husband are incredibly lazy. He’s a builder and works max 6hrs a day, sleeps in, starts at 10, finishes at 2 to play tennis or something. They live in a shit hole house, like actually deemed uninhabitable by the bank. She’s in and out of jobs every few months and always the victim. Then they whinge about never having money. It’s so frustrating when she says ‘oh you’re so lucky’ when it’s not luck it’s f$&@ing hard work and saving!!! We don’t have takeaway 3x a week, we don’t drink a carton of beer a week, we don’t own a boat and a motorbike and a scooter etc etc. She thinks he works so he’s but normal workdays don’t involve stopping for three hours because you have a headache. Most self employed people don’t take a week off to do bookwork, they do it after hours.

That I’m a trust fund kid.
I run my own buisness that does pretty well. But I don’t need to work at all if I don’t want to.
I don’t pay for the home I live in. If we sold it tomorrow it’s worth about 4.5 as the beach literally backs into our house. The trust owns about 20 other properties all around the world that we holiday in. Every other month. My brothers live in beach front and harbour front in Sydney. All my kids school is paid for including any uni they want to do. Sport, ect all paid for. Car loans are done through the trust.
My kids will all be given apartments at 21 and homes when they start a family.
It started with my great grandfather, my grandparents catapulted his company . My parents catapulted the trust fun. So we were the first generation who were part of the ridiculous wealth.

Not even my closest friends know or cousins or uncles aunts, mother in law none of them know.

I agree on the birth thing. Ive had 4 totally different births. None was better than the other and once your baby is here nobody cares!

I hate p eop lke saying they gave birth when they had ceserians im sorry but its n o t t h e same.

I feel exactly the same. Wish I could tell my friends’ kids to piss off and stop being a little brat so I can have a proper catch up with your Mum 😂

Yeah I hear you on the birth thing. I used to be ashamed I had a section and a premmie, like I failed at everything. Now I just respond with ‘we both nearly died so I’m happy to just be here with my scar and my baby’

Did I write this post? Hahaha. I feel the same way about my friends kids except for my bestfriends 3, who I consider my family. I cant even bond with my partners kids (dont live together) but I do try because I love their dad very much and I'd like to be a good support and role model for them.
And the birth thing - yes! My labour and my children's births were just that - ours. It's not even talked about anymore in my circles as we all had very different births because we are not the same people or circumstance.

I agree with your second confession. Doesn’t matter how you birth, drugs, no drugs, long labour, fast labour, c -section whatever. Also, mothers are not more woman than those who are not mothers.

Also, your first point I agree somewhat. Adore my Niece, but my friends kids.... not really