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Mine supposedly broke down due to my nagging... coz you know its nagging when your idiot husband drives to the pub and gets a taxi home and then your car is just left at a pub... that locks its gates until 10am in the morning. School run? Going to work on time... nagging? Nagging to put clothes in the basket, instead of leaving dirty clothes on the kitchen floor (near laundry door) nagging asking for help around the house, nagging asking for him to pull meat out of freezer and place on bench. He is so happy and free now that he escaped my nagging. And im so fu****g happy that i dont have to put up with him anymore
He was an alcoholic, there was domestic violence perpetrated by him and I caught him cheating on me. I worked too much, wasn't in love with him and wanted my freedom.
Five years later and he's sober, no longer aggressive and has a wonderful girlfriend. I'm happy living life as a single Mum and working in a job I'm passionate about.
Took the two of us for the marriage to fail. I'm not marriage material and my kids and my work are my life.
He's turned into a half decent person, will always have asshole tendencies but we were like oil and water.. It was never going to work.
We just couldn't get along anymore
We fought too much and the kids were being affected
Since we've split we've become great friends again.
The hardest things by far was not having my kids every day
It's still shit but it's what it is.
But my kids have two pRents who can't be in the same room
They have two step parents who are awesome
They never split birthdays Christmas or any special even
And they have dinner every few weeks with everyone who means the most to them :)
Mine kept having tantrums because I wasn't giving him enough attention - newborn baby was getting it all. He cheated on me with a young backpacker and decided he wanted freedom. So yes a complete surprises.
Since we split mutual friends have told me he cheated on me a few times. I felt more hurt by that than him.
Found out he was on Asian dating sites. Kicked him out. Plus he use to verbally abuse me something terrible. He's a narcissist. Since having the baby he lost all interest in me. I'm staying civilised for our sons sake. He visits his son. He said he doesn't want him nights. Doesn't want all that responsibility. So yeah ... just another jerk!
Because he was extremely narcissistic and selfish and was doing a lot of bad stuff, which put our children in danger. Oh and he was also cheating on me. Good Riddance I say.
Not exactly a surprise, more of a relief. Besides from him cheating (which I could never prove he did more than make profiles on hookup sites and he wouldn't admit to without solid evidence), he lied constantly about everything, abused me physically, emotionally and sexually, it was when I found out he was an ice addict that I was able to get away from him. But if you listen to his side of the story, it would be that I became distant and am a complete bitch.
He was arrested and put in jail so I'm going to go with surprise..... you can live a monster and not even know it!
I was never married. I was single, contraception failed and I fell pregnant on my 6 monthly "freeing of the frustration" lol.
My husband commited suicide