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Don't see how TTC is relevant. Like others have said. Night in the city with a massage and dinner out.
When you have kids your life changes a lot
Go out for your birthday and get drunk and have a good time
What do you enjoy doing? Would you like to spend the day out exploring galleries or museums and then have a lovely lunch somewhere? Would you like to dress up and go out for a special dinner? Weekend away in the country? Beach getaway? Couples pamper day?
I understand not wanting to go out for your birthday because of unhappy memories, I am the same. For my last milestone my husband and kids took me out the day before my birthday as that way it could be a celebration but not on the day that gives me so much pain.
Maybe something like doing something on a weekend around your birthday would help or be better.
Recently I got the advise to take back my birthday as a way to step forward and create new happy memories so I am hoping to do that, I hope you can do this as well. Everyone deserves to be happy on their birthday :)
Dinner out. Anything that you want to try before baby? Pamper day. Holiday to see your friend.
Lunch cruise (if in Sydney look up captain cook cruises)
Wind down in the evening with movie and cake and some sexy time
If u have noone just go out with ur partner.