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My husband is the same. He had two weeks off work and was did nothing to help. If I put washing on it was still in the machine when I got home from work. I had to laugh this morning when he was getting ready for work and realised I hadn't washed his stuff and had to wear dirty clothes that had been in the bottom of the laundry basket for two weeks.
Can be overwhelming, most definatley if the other half isn't donning the domestic god apron, so to speak.
Delegate more jobs to *everyone* prior to your departure next time and make it known there will be no holiday to go to, until the damn house is spotless *before* you leave.
I run a tight ship. I can't compute in clutter, so my house is normally tidy as a MOFO. My husband likes to joke the beds are made up like army barracks, ready for an inspection 24/7....I'm next level.
Funny enough, the trouble I extend myself to (mostly because my standards are high and I lump most of the elbow grease, as a result) our kids don't notice the effort.
I decided yesterday in fact to change it up, just for the day and *gasp* didn't make the beds. Kids didn't notice till late in the avo, Hubby comes home from work and raises his eyebrows at me and says...."You need to do that more often".
I hope you feel better after your rant.
Get rid of him! I’d have thrown something at his head for yelling at my kids and blamed it on ‘it’s too hot’.