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If You fell pregnant to the guy you’d been seeing for over 12 months and then found out he was still in fact married would you tell his wife and how?

He said they were separated but I’ve found out they aren’t.
I’m not seeing him as the trust has been broken.


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Why would you get pregnant to a man that is still married?

 Totally. I’d abort
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 Jesus! You're so casual about it.
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 She found out after if you'd bother to read it
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 He said he's separated, isn't clear whether he specified he was still married or divorced. I'd be very wary of anyone who is separated but still married.
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I wouldn't tell. Send a letter that requires a signature, addressed to him at their home address about the pregnancy and your finacial and personal expectations of him. She will very likely find out