My husband is in school and works as a bartender part time on weekend nights (1 night a week). I work full time M-F and my only time for quality time with him is on the weekends. Every weekend night that he has off he chooses to go out drinking with his friends when he knows that I’d like him to stay home and spend time with me. Everytime he goes out he tells me “you’ll be asleep so what’s the difference of me being home or out?” He says “you always make me feel bad when I just want to hang out with my friends” but everytime he goes out he gets extremely drunk, spends hundreds of dollars and is hungover and grumpy the next day where he sleeps in, plays video games and then goes to work just to get drunk at work and sleep in the next day. I don’t know what to do because I love him but I feel so disrespected that my own husband would rather spend quality time with his friends over his wife. What do I do?