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Is an emotional affair worst than a phsyical one?

Answered 8 months ago

My husband went through a stage of talking to an old "school friend" (female) they'd msg back and forth. Like each other's pictures/post on social media but he was admitted it was nothing. I never heard of this lady before and he would delete the messages between them. Till this day im still not over it. Am I over reacting?


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8 months ago
They're both hurtful and wrong for different reasons.

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8 months ago
No. My thoughts would be what else is he doing that you don't know about.

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8 months ago
Was it an emotional affair really, or just reconnecting with an old friend? There is a difference between them

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8 months ago
But the deleted messages? Doesn't really indicate innocent reconnecting with an old friend...

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8 months ago
Yes emotional is far worse the sexual.....
If a man has a one night stand it's just that, sex. If he spends months conversing with a woman wehrer or they've slept together there is obviously some kind of 'feelings' there if he is hiding it.
Husband and I have an understanding that if we wouldn't do it, say it or talk to someone with the other there then it's probably crossing the line