How to spice things up in the bedroom?
Answered 8 months ago
My husband and I are in a rut in the bedroom. While we do have sex regularly, we are both getting bored of how “routine” it is with 3 kids.
How do you ladies keep things exciting? We have used toys a little (doesnt do much for either of us), and feel like we need to do something bigger to give things a kickstart.
How have you in long term relationships reinvigorated things?
Please share your experiences here!
Have an answer?
We ended up just being spontaneous, I understand this is hard with 3 kids but you just have to do it, FIND the time. MAKE the time and just do it.
The kids will be fine for 15 minutes while you have a quick smash in the garden shed or bent over the washing machine. This doesn't hold longevity but it does help bring that sexy spark back. Make shit hot - not just standard ole bedroom sex. Go for a quick drive somewhere and have a hot quickie on the backseat. Whatever you need to do, but MAKE THE TIME. No excuses
Make fake profiles on social media and flirt with each other arrange to "meet up" as strangers.
Download apps that allow you to send requests/dares to each other (desire is a good one)
Get husband to buy you lingerie that he would like to see you in. Do a sexy photo shoot. You could even have husband be the photographer.
I hope some of this helps or at least inspires some ideas of your own 😊
Sexy photoshoot sounds fun!