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Would you have a baby with your partner seeing how he fucked up his other kids life ?

Answered 4 years ago

My partner is a lousy dad to his kids and treats them like mates and doesn’t discipline them when they are over ?

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4 years ago

If honestly think that why are you even with him

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4 years ago

My ex ignores his kids mostly, just the odd visit, pays a pathetic amount of child support and had a couple of kids with his girlfriend.
The worst part is I worked hard to study and now I have a job he wants the kids, I imagine he thinks he will get child support.

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4 years ago

🙄 omg what a dog..

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4 years ago

He's a parasite. I'm glad you're doing better without him, though!

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4 years ago

No I wouldn’t. The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour.

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4 years ago

Absolutely!

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4 years ago

Not a chance in Hades. Can you imagine trying to co-parent with someone like that? It would be infuriating. The kids would hate you, being as though you're the authoritarian, and they'll love dad becasue he lets them get away with murder. Your kids will essentially pull away from you and grow up to be arseholes.

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4 years ago

I chose not to have a child with my partner, not so much because of his parenting, but because if his kids attitudes. I find them hard to tolerate and don't want a child who will be related to them.

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4 years ago

I'm struggling with my partners children too. They're so entitled unlike my children. The way they brag and roll their eyes really gets to me.

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4 years ago

How many kids has he got ?
How many kids have you got ?

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4 years ago

He has 2. I have 3.

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4 years ago

Why are you with him ?

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4 years ago

Because he is lovely, his kids are awful.

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4 years ago

Big N O !!!!!

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4 years ago

My partner wanted to have a family with me because he missed out on most of his other kids lives. Mum constantly made him jump through hoops to see his kids and held them to ransom financially. Unfortunately it just meant that the kids missed out on having their father in their lives. He stopped putting effort into his older kids and put it all into his second family.

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4 years ago

This is us too exactly!

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4 years ago

Hugs. At some point you have to cut your losses.

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4 years ago

^cut your losses?...what a horrible thing to say about your kids😢

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4 years ago

You can't always make a situation work. My partner could only see his kids if he paid ridiculous amounts of money, he was working two jobs missing time with his new baby so he could see his other two kids for a few hours once a month. So he cut his losses and focused on the family that cared about him in return.

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4 years ago

😱

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4 years ago

It is true what others are saying, a colleague of mine left his wife for another work colleague and he had more children with her but is still a devoted dad to his first three. They don’t change good dad stays good and a poor father will stay the same.

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