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Would you have a baby with your partner seeing how he fucked up his other kids life ?

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My partner is a lousy dad to his kids and treats them like mates and doesn’t discipline them when they are over ?


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2 years ago
If honestly think that why are you even with him

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2 years ago
My ex ignores his kids mostly, just the odd visit, pays a pathetic amount of child support and had a couple of kids with his girlfriend.
The worst part is I worked hard to study and now I have a job he wants the kids, I imagine he thinks he will get child support.

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2 years ago
🙄 omg what a dog..

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2 years ago
He's a parasite. I'm glad you're doing better without him, though!

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2 years ago
No I wouldn’t. The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour.

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2 years ago
Absolutely!

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2 years ago
Not a chance in Hades. Can you imagine trying to co-parent with someone like that? It would be infuriating. The kids would hate you, being as though you're the authoritarian, and they'll love dad becasue he lets them get away with murder. Your kids will essentially pull away from you and grow up to be arseholes.

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2 years ago
I chose not to have a child with my partner, not so much because of his parenting, but because if his kids attitudes. I find them hard to tolerate and don't want a child who will be related to them.

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2 years ago
I'm struggling with my partners children too. They're so entitled unlike my children. The way they brag and roll their eyes really gets to me.

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2 years ago
How many kids has he got ?
How many kids have you got ?

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2 years ago
He has 2. I have 3.

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2 years ago
Why are you with him ?

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2 years ago
Because he is lovely, his kids are awful.

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2 years ago
Big N O !!!!!

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2 years ago
My partner wanted to have a family with me because he missed out on most of his other kids lives. Mum constantly made him jump through hoops to see his kids and held them to ransom financially. Unfortunately it just meant that the kids missed out on having their father in their lives. He stopped putting effort into his older kids and put it all into his second family.

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2 years ago
This is us too exactly!

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2 years ago
Hugs. At some point you have to cut your losses.

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2 years ago
^cut your losses?...what a horrible thing to say about your kids😢

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2 years ago
You can't always make a situation work. My partner could only see his kids if he paid ridiculous amounts of money, he was working two jobs missing time with his new baby so he could see his other two kids for a few hours once a month. So he cut his losses and focused on the family that cared about him in return.

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2 years ago
😱

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2 years ago
It is true what others are saying, a colleague of mine left his wife for another work colleague and he had more children with her but is still a devoted dad to his first three. They don’t change good dad stays good and a poor father will stay the same.

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2 years ago
I disagree

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2 years ago
Good for you then

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2 years ago
I wouldn't even continue a relationship with a bad father let alone have children.

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2 years ago
No way

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2 years ago
I wouldn’t be with a man who was a bad dad to his kids.

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2 years ago
Yes!!!!!

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2 years ago
No way would i have a baby with a man who is already known to be a bad father, are you for real?

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2 years ago
Why do you even have to ask the question? Pretty obvious. Not likely he will change all of a sudden.

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2 years ago
Red flag city babe

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2 years ago
It sounds like a good idea to limit that gene pool.

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2 years ago
😂😂😂😂 pmsl

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2 years ago
No I wouldn't then. He should focus on his poor children he already has.