Have your family actually said to you they are offended that you don't wear a bra? That its unacceptable?

Have you tried a back brace/back support to help with your back pain?

It sounds like you’re family are being a little insensitive!

Can you wear a crop style at least?
Personally I wouldn't like it either if I'm honest. I just think it looks sloppy, same as people who go shopping in pyjamas- just looks a bit feral. But that's just my opinion, you do whatever works for you!

I wear a push up bra. I’m flat chested without one :(

I have low hangers. H cups. I have never left the home without a bra, and I cannot stand the feeling of not having one on unless I'm sleeping or in the presence of anyone other than my partner. Often I still wear a seamless bra (none actually fit properly) to bed. I hate the hanging and banging feeling when I walk around in the morning with no support whatsoever.
It makes me feel incredibly uncomfortable without support because I know my boobs are abnormally saggy and jiggly. I like the way they look in a bra better. I don't want to walk around with my tits waggling everywhere. It also feels super sensitive.
I know the unfair feeling of smaller/perky boobs being able to go bra free. Low cut tops etc look fine on "regular" boobs, classy even.
On me its like a sex club everyone look at the big titty cleavage what a ho bag. Atleast that's how I feel.
If I truly didn't care, and one day I'm sure I won't, I'd go bra free too.
There are plenty of women FAR bigger than me who let them free. (I'm 70kg now, 1.68cm.. biggest ive been is 98kg)
I don't give two hoots when I see those ladies with big tiddies under a shirt bra free.
If you feel most comfortable without a bra don't wear one. I feel most comfortable with one so I wear a bra almost always.
If you told me it was wrong for me to do what I think/feel most comfortable for my own breasts I'd think you were mad.
Easier for me to say because my preference fits social norms but seriously if you don't want to wear a bra because its more comfortable then don't..
Tell a guy he should wear briefs instead of boxers because you don't like the shape of his penis in boxers. No support!

I personally don't like the outline of my nipples on show, so I wear a bra (although I mostly now use padded camis or crops as I'm having trouble finding bras that fits properly). But if someone else isn't wearing a bra, I'm like meh whatever. Good for them.

I never dress to please other people but myself. I would not feel properly dressed if I didn’t have a bra on. And if my girls aren’t secure, I don’t feel secure. Also...../ The right bra can completely change the look of an outfit. If you have no interest in how you look. And if you are active have no interest in the support a correct bra can give you then don’t worry what other people think. You do you.

I always wear a bra because I can find comfortable ones easily and it makes me feel safer incase a dress or shirt falls down 😂. Why should other people be commenting on your underwear anyway? I never get told what knickers to wear or to put some on when I don’t have them, it just seems weird that it is somehow acceptable to tell a woman to put on a bra.

I think large boobs with no bra look awful. The boobs are hanging low, bouncing with every step and they make your top look illfitting. I’d be embarrassed out with you too. Sorry , I know that seems harsh but you asked for feedback! On the other hand, I understand how comfy they’d be freefalling! Perhaps compromise and just wear a bra around your family.