Kids being in a wedding.
Answered 4 years ago
My brother in law is getting married in a few months, he has asked my 6 year old son to be part of the bridal party, I have a 4 year old daughter who will be devastated as she has not being asked to be a flower girl. My son isn't really fussed to be in the wedding so we said no, I decided not to take either of them to the ceremony as they aren't invited to the reception. In laws are now annoyed because all the boy cousins are in the wedding except my son, and they want both kids there for photos. But I am the one who will be dealing with an inconsolable child when she sees the other kids being part of the wedding and not her. Is it unreasonable to say both kids need to be in the wedding or neither of them are going?
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Both or none in my opinion.
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Tell your daughter to suck it up. Shes old enough to know better and once she see's how boring that whole affair is, she'll be fine. Kids hate ceremonies, they're boring - she'll probably be glad she wasn't involved once she see's the boys are having any fun.
Straight up though, you seem proper bitchy about it. Suck it up - it's not your wedding.
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Just put miss 4 in a cute frilly dress with a nice floral head piece. Make her feel like a princess for the day without creating all this family friction because your 4 yo is supposedly gonna have a meltdown 🤦🏻♀️