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Husband is uncircumcised and had a lot of problems with his foreskin when he was young. I live him as he is, but think I'd prefer to have our future son(s) circumcised. He seems to be fine with me making the decision. Any other mums out there in a similar situation? Are you happy you had your sons done?


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8 months ago
I'm loath to admit it.
But both my sons were 'done'. I do regret it now.
They are 16 and 17 now, and not the norm.
The reason was hygiene. Their dad was a submariner, and he said living on a submarine with other men who didn't wash their dick properly was completely foul. The stench.
I suppose those stink-asses were never taught how to wash themselves?
Back then I hadn't toured enough dicks to know the difference.
Would do it differently now.

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8 months ago
Not sure

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8 months ago
Not sure if you're happy you had them done? Why or why not?

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9 months ago
Husband is uncut but we had a drinks night maybe 2 months ago now and the topic did come up. One of his brothers had a retraction issue when he was just becoming a teenager but was solved within some time. Our son is uncut of course and we haven’t had any dramas with it

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9 months ago
What decision did you go with? My hubby is uncut as well as our only son. It was never a conversation we spoke about

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9 months ago
If it's not broken, don't try to fix it. Sons are uncircumcised. Husband is circumcised. I like him being circumcised, like the look and feel etc.. But I would never have my sons circumcised unnecessarily. I have experienced both (a long time ago now), but both have benefits and disadvantages. Previous boyfriends you could masturbate so much easier. But I have a lot more orgasms with my husband as he can last so much longer than ex uncircumcised boyfriends. I can get dry though if we have sex for a long time but a drop of lube helps with this.

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9 months ago
I couldn't agree more. Hubby's parents didn't have him circumcised but he opted to get it done in his 20s. I love his penis being sleek, tight and gorgeous. It feels great, too.
But he's glad he had the choice and we would both convey that choice on any sons we had by leaving them intact.

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12 months ago
In Adelaide here, got four boys all circumcised with a gomco. Husband was done as a teenager, it’s just cleaner for them. White cocks look weird with foreskin anyways.

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12 months ago
Are you happy with the results from the Gomco? I've heard it gives the best cosmetic outcome.

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12 months ago
Yes I am. Very high and very tight, no fren with a brown gomco ring on the pale shaft

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12 months ago
As a circumcision should be. No point doing a job by halves!
Did you specifically ask for Gomco, and for it to be high and tight?
It's good for others to know there are different outcomes so they can request what they want if they decide to circumcise.

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12 months ago
How do you tell what style ? Partner is circumcised but interested to know what style he is now.

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12 months ago
As I understand from my hubby who was circumcised in his 20s, a "high" circumcision has the scar further down the shaft, away from the head (leaving proportionally more inner foreskin), while a "low" circumcision has the scar close to the head.
"Tight" or "loose" refer to how movable the skin on the shaft is, as a result of the amount of skin removed.
Some people consider "high and tight" (with the scar well away from the head and not much movable skin) to give the best cosmetic outcome - although I guess that's subjective.
Hubby is "high and tight". I love it :-)

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11 months ago
I definitely asked for a high and tight. It’s just the right way to do it, every girl they’re with can see the brown ring and know it’s good to go. Tight is better, it slows down on masturbating and encourages finding a partner.

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9 months ago
Very much agree with that last sentence.

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9 months ago
Yes, it reminds them their penises are for their partners pleasure and not masturbation. I don’t buy my sons lube so they’re seeking out women.

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9 months ago
Lol. I am sure they use something else in its place though. And how do you know they're cut so tightly that they need to use lube? 🤔

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9 months ago
We’re an open family and nude a lot

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9 months ago
They must be happy having such well-sculpted penises!

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9 months ago
Uncut dad here… we’re in our low 30s and have 2 boys that are also uncut. I was 1 of 5 boys growing up and we’re all uncircumcised as well as our father, apparently it was never a thing to do in the family. While I was growing up my mates were a mix of both.

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9 months ago
Never been a part of my family. Younger brother is uncut (well last I knew he was). My partner and boy are uncircumized

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9 months ago
Paternal grandfather wasn't, dad is, brothers and cousins weren't last I knew and I wasn't but elected to have it done in my 20s, purely for personal reasons (no medical issue).

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9 months ago
Husband and sons are all uncircumcised. I’m happy with the choice we made

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9 months ago
I would not circumcise my boys, but love the fact my husband is done. It's always been my preference in my men.

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9 months ago
I am circumcised and glad to be.

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1 year ago
We ended up having our son done, and we don't regret it.

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1 year ago
Are they old enough to know and be happy with their status? Are many of their friends done?

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1 year ago
You mutilated your son.

If you have daughters then I expect you also circumcised them.

You filthy paedophile mutilator.

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1 year ago
Oh, honestly. Try to come up with a reasoned argument rather than be an angry Karen. You are not helping your cause.

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1 year ago
50/50 and they are more than happy.

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1 year ago
My teen daughters have told me they and their friends prefer them cut

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1 year ago
Most of my friends that have experienced both certainly prefer the streamlined version. I know I do!

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1 year ago
My girls and I agree, so much cleaner without foreskin.

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1 year ago
I can't disagree. As much as I am against circumcising babies, I can't deny it also just looks so much nicer.

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11 months ago
What an idiotic narrow minded comment

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9 months ago
such nonsense.
the only reason someone would not be clean there (regardless if foreskin or not), is lack of hygiene. if cleaned regularly, it's not dirtier than anything else.
there are certain benefits but as much as I'm concerned, they aren't really worth it (unless a medical condition occurs that would be resolved by it). and parents should let their kids decide for themselves when they're old enough to research it properly themselves instead of parents "pushing" it on them by making bs claims like "much cleaner".
and lastly, since women don't have a foreskin, should say have any say on the matter? especially when it's uneducated and wrong facts?
God forbid men stating opinions on women's body matters but the other way around is fine?
(I find it ridiculous either way, everybody should be able to state opinions regardless, but I couldn't get around noticing it)

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11 months ago
As a circumcised male, I would prefer to circumcise a son.

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11 months ago
Every boy should be circumcised. So much better for them

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11 months ago
As a mother I strongly disagree

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11 months ago
I wasn't circumcised as a baby but elected to have it done in my 20s. I am very happy that I did it.
I wouldn't do it to my sons but I would let them know that if it's something they chose to do then we'd fully support and help them do it.

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11 months ago
Agreed.

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11 months ago
Why? It's not like we remember being circumcised and there's no point of reference because it gets removed before we know anything about it. I think it's fine.

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10 months ago
As an unmutilated male, I assure you that you would prefer to have a foreskin. Anyone who asks an uncut guy as an adult if he wanted a circumcision would get a loud, “Hell No!”. Don’t mutilate your boys because of your vanity

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10 months ago
As a counterpoint: As someone who wasn't circumcised as a baby, I was glad to finally be rid of my foreskin when I elected to get cut in my 20s.
There was nothing good about having a foreskin and being circumcised is so much better in all respects.

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10 months ago
Our sons are uncircumcised (both 15 years old) and they’ve never come to us with any issues. If nothing is wrong with it just leave it alone.

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11 months ago
My husband is uncut, I don’t really have a preference but with my past experience I lean more towards uncut. I did leave the decision up to him as he is the one that owns a penis. We left our only son uncut and also found out that circumcision is not very common at all.

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11 months ago
Don't give to much in the answers here.
It has been reposted in a Tumblr circumcision fetish blog.
Thats why it attracts a specific kind of people that give a specific kind of (not trustworthy) answer.

There's also thatones among that scene that actually get off on the fact that they know someone else will feel much less after it...

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11 months ago
How would you know that unless you'd been hanging out on the said circumcision fetish blog? 🤔

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11 months ago
If you want him to loose 70 percent of feeling...

It's like being on able to stimulate the clit without actually the vaginal hole after a circumcision

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12 months ago
I'm in Sydney and husband is circumcised. He was done as a teenager for medical reasons which he says was an awful experience. I really do like it and he doesn't. He has never had sex with his foreskin so doesn't know any different. He is the first circumcised man I ever slept with and a few benefits are, always nice and clean, his glans are much bigger and pronounced than previous uncircumcised partners, he is a bit harder and thrusts deeper when he going to cum which i like the feeling of. Handjobs are a pain so a blowjob is much better for him. We have 3 sons and never circumcised them. My sisters husband can't pull his foreskin back at all so not sure what the solution is for him other than circumcision.

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12 months ago
Tell your husband he's not missing anything and to embrace his circumcised status!
I was done in my 20s because I wanted to.
It looks better and I like the feeling during sex much better. Before, my foreskin would roll around inside women, which I didn't like.
The feeling now with the tight skin and exposed head is great. It's enhanced sex for me, although I know there are some guys who are unhappy being circumcised.
I guess I'm happy I had the choice though.
Just tell him to chill and enjoy what he has!

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12 months ago
Guys like compliments about their dicks, so maybe if you tell him how much you love that he's circumcised it might help him like it too.

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11 months ago
There's a technique called, 'Triple Incision' for it. And also cortisol creams that might help

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1 year ago
I remember growing up learning about circumcision and telling myself I will never do it to my sons, luckily for me the man I married grew up telling himself the same thing. My husband and 2 boys are intact, the boys are more than happy with what they’ve got

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1 year ago
I’m a Dad (not a mum but I’m allowed to have a say) with 4 boys 13,11, 9 and 7 all with our foreskins intact. None of us have had any problems just like 95% of all other boys and men who remain intact.
We never ‘fiddled’ with our boys foreskin as babies or toddlers however when they were 4 or 5 yrs of age they would sneak in for a shower with me and they were fascinated with seeing me simply retract and rinse under my foreskin.
They naturally started retracting and clean themselves (ha ha…mainly playing with themselves as it felt good they told me).
We have always been open to nudity and discuss openly about male and female genitalia, hygiene, pleasure of masturbating etc
We also discuss about the functions of the foreskin and the added sensitivity for heightened pleasures. My eldest appreciates his foreskin and how important it is sexually and says he knows what he needs to explain to partners about pleasuring foreplay etc.
Being in the health setting I’m afraid that there is so much ignorance and medical disinformation in regards to the penis, and mainly with the role and function of the human penile foreskin.
The 5% of boys and men who have foreskin problems can quickly be resolved with conservative treatments including the conditions of Balanitis and phimosis!
Even men who may have bothersome phimosis (1-2% develop or have this since teenage years) can quickly be resolved within a few weeks with a simple home device that’s having current clinical trials in Brisbane showing results to work 100% of the time so far.
So if your husband still has problems, fix it once and for all with friendly conservative measures.
With future boys allow them to have full sensitivity of their genitalia. There is plenty of recent literature condemning the circumcision of children as unethical. Not a recommended medical procedure in Australia however this unethical procedure can be ordered by a parent…makes me think I should be able to order a tattoo for my boy…

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1 year ago
Nice answer! I’d like my hubby to be like this when our son is old enough. Like yourself they are both uncut. Hubby had mentioned before that he has never had an issue with his foreskin. I believe it’s a thing of the past now, absolutely no need for circumcision

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1 year ago
Working in Texas in the US for the past year, met a guy who is circumcised. Never seen or been with one like it before. A bit strange at first, but getting used to it. He says that most men are done at birth in America.

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1 year ago
much prefer cut myself!

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1 year ago
I’m in Australia now but grew up in Denmark where circumcision is unheard of (I didn’t know about it). When I came across my first circumcised one I asked myself what is wrong with it lol. I’m here now married with an uncircumcised hubby and our only son is also uncircumcised.

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1 year ago
Husband is uncut, so much more fun to play with that previous circumcised partner. Understand if you get done for medical reasons, but if it doesn't need doing - leave it as it is. He is more sensitive for not being circumcised and previous partners have sex differently, much more deeper in and out rather than softer and more gentle with husband.

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1 year ago
Hubby had it done as a teenager, so when I suggested we have our sons done, he was on board right way. We didn't want them going through what he did, and he's happier now that he's circumcised.

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1 year ago
I am, my father was, and our sons are. Any time I’m in a public shower at the gym or pool with other men of all ages, the majority are circumcised. In the high school gym and football locker room 25 years ago, almost all the guys were (don’t know if that’s changed at all since then). I’m in the United States, though - I think it’s been a lot more common here than in other countries for several generations.

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1 year ago
In Australia it was fairly routine until the mid 1980s. I think it's a good thing when it's done.

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1 year ago
My uncut was left with that decision, he’s glad he was left uncut so we’ve gone ahead and left our sons uncut. No issues or concerns here

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1 year ago
We're happy we did it. It seems to be a lot more common than people believe.

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1 year ago
We had ours circumcised, 6 and 5 years ago. No regrets!

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1 year ago
My husband is circumcised we had our 3 boys done. It looks so much better, is cleaner and helps men last longer. There was no way we wouldn’t have it done. It seems about half of the boys nowadays are done in Melbourne.

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1 year ago
Wow, that's much more than what I always thought was the rate.
I get the impression it's more popular in affluent suburbs. What area of Melbourne do you live in?

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1 year ago
Thanks! Do you mind me asking what age group you're from? How was your circumcision experience?

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1 year ago
Not half of them...

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1 year ago
I’m in my mid 30s. My sons all healed very easily. They’re 10-14, all of hinted they like their circumcision status.

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1 year ago
Where are you located? Was the process of having your sons done easy?

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1 year ago
We didn't bother getting our sons done despite husband being circumcised. He says that at the gym it's about 50/50 for his 40's age group.

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1 year ago
Makes sense. Do you have a preference?

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1 year ago
Yeah my partner is circumcised and lasts longer. I'm happy with either to be honest, but have advantages and dis-advantages. Uncut for playing with and circ for clean blowjobs. Sex I have to say is the same.

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1 year ago
Agree, though I still prefer cut overall!

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1 year ago
Both hubby and myself in our early 50s, he’s uncut and our son (23) is uncut. There’s been no issues whatsoever

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1 year ago
Well, you didn't have him cut :-)
My hubby had it done at 23 because he wanted to so perhaps your son no longer has a foreskin! ha ha

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1 year ago
When we found out we were having a boy I left that decision for hubby, both hubby and our boy are uncut. It’s a thing of the past now even our hospital told us that public systems have banned the procedure.

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1 year ago
That’s right it has been banned for some time now which in my opinion is good

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1 year ago
My husband is circumcised, although I love him and love his penis. I would never circumcise our sons. No need. Mu husband is in total agreement despite being circumcised. It's a very long time (20+years) since I have seen an uncircumcised adult penis. My husband would like to of had the personal choice and so I think that is why he would never want it for our sons. He says that he would never know what it is like to have sex with a foreskin, so something he misses.

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1 year ago
Just reading this and I’d have to say it’s been 20+ years for since I’ve been with a circumcised, as you said with personal choice my hubby is glad he has his foreskin (and so am I) so we done the same and left our boy uncut

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1 year ago
Why is everyone so obsessed with circumcision ???

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1 year ago
It’ll always be a topic lol, uncut hubby for me though

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1 year ago
Wow. How disgusting!! I'm disgusted so many of you are happy with the genital mutilation of children!!!! Filthy dirty animals!!!
Would you allow your daughters to be circumcised also????
SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!

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1 year ago
Such a civil response. Guaranteed to win people over to your side.

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1 year ago
I don’t think I’d like to get my sons circumcised, although probably too late now anyway. I prefer the look and feel of a natural penis despite my new partner being circumcised. He’s the first circumcised man I’ve ever slept with so I think it’s quite rare here in Brisbane. Was a bit strange at first always seeing the end out on display.

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1 year ago
Hubby is uncircumcised. We left our first sone uncircumcised too but he had to have it done at age 4, so we had our second son done at birth.

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1 year ago
Back to this topic lol.
H is uncut so when it came to us having 2 boys in total it was never discussed. As a family we haven’t come across any issues and it’s honestly been a breeze. Reading these other replies I’m really shocked to hear how many seem to be cut. I thought it was a thing that was long gone. No cut dicks in this house.

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1 year ago
only cut ones in this house lol!

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1 year ago
Hubby and sons are all done.

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1 year ago
We had our sons done, despite the fact that hubby isn't. He had problems as a kid and generally never liked the skin.

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1 year ago
Has he thought about having it done?
My hubby had it done later in life because he wanted to.
He didn't have any health issues at all. He just hated having a foreskin! He says he wished he'd had it done sooner.

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1 year ago
He's pretty much happy to live with it now, but given the choice when we was younger he would've preferred that it had been done. He sees the benefits of not having the skin though for sure.

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1 year ago
Has he considered getting it done?

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1 year ago
Ex hubby regretted it only months after getting it done, he knew that I prefer them uncut before he got it done also

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1 year ago
Why did he get it done?

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1 year ago
Hubby is uncut and our 3 sons are also uncut. I was under the impression that around 15% are circumcised. It was never an option for us as we’ve never come across any issues with the foreskin and both sides of our families didn’t circumcised. Also personally I prefer uncut

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1 year ago
Husband was circumcised as a child for medical reasons but our sons are uncut. My sister's husband is uncut and was shocked to here that my husband was circumcised. She had never slept with anyone who was circumcised before. I have no issues and love the clean look and feel of it. We got talking about it as her teenage son was having a few issues with his foreskin. So I told her about what happened to my husband when he was younger. We didn't feel the need to circumcise our sons, if they choose to later in their life, that is up to them.

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1 year ago
No regrets here. Three boys 8-16 all done and the process was easy.

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1 year ago
Hubby is uncut but we had our sons done. Hubby had phimosis as a teenager despite being very clean. We didn't want to risk our sons going through that.

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1 year ago
Are they OK being different from dad, and understand why you had it done?

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1 year ago
They're happy. We were honest with them about the whole thing, and they seem to be grateful for the choice we made.

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1 year ago
Hubby is the first circumcised man I've been with (I'm originally from a country that doesn't circumcise), and it was actually my suggestion to have our sons circumcised. I'm glad we did it now.

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1 year ago
Did anyone back in your home country criticise you for it, given its not the norm there?

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1 year ago
No, in fact they were very accepting of it.

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1 year ago
Awesome!

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1 year ago
It sounds like you might wish your husband had been done (or decides to have it done)?

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1 year ago
Not sure I'd go that far, but I think overall I do prefer it circumcised.

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1 year ago
My hubby had it done as an adult and says it's much better. I prefer it too. It's never too late 😉

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1 year ago
oh wow! Why did he have it done? What do you like about it now?

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1 year ago
He'd never liked having a foreskin. He didn't like the look of it and said it felt in the way during sex.
He got circumcised as an adult before we met.
It looks great and I have always preferred the feeling of a sleek, smooth penis during sex. Plus, there are never any nasty surprises because there are no folds of skin for things to hide!
Against doing it to a baby though if there's no medical reason.

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1 year ago
sound great! I don't think there's much benefit to the foreskin during sex...

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1 year ago
From my experience, you're absolutely right. I far prefer a guy sans foreskin! Sleek and tight!

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1 year ago
Yes, when it's tight is great!!

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1 year ago
Lol. No point doing things by halves!

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1 year ago
Two sons, 20 and 16. Both done. No regrets here!

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1 year ago
Are they OK with it too? Are many of their friends done?

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1 year ago
We've had discussions with them about it. They are pleased it was done for them, and they say that half of their peers seem to be done also.

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1 year ago
I'm sure any partners aren't upset about it either!

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1 year ago
lol wouldn't doubt that! I'd be happy if it were routine again...

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1 year ago
This is such a personal choice.
Some people get it done for looks, some for religious reasons and some just because it's preffered apparently in men. It's honestly something that both your husband and yourself should discuss and agree with. I am against it personally, my husband was for it. My reasoning was I could not put our child through pain (even if its mere minutes) for vanity reasons. If it was deemed medically necessary then of course I would have, but its not a medical necessity. I just couldn't put a baby through it. Again, it is a personal choice. Unfortunetly its an important one as having it done when older is apprently very, very painful so people told me. Again, I didn't get it done for my son because it's not a medically needed procedure. It's more "vanity".
But its up to you what you decide is best for your child.

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1 year ago
Thanks for your rational response!!!!

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1 year ago
Bump

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1 year ago
My son is now 14. We had him circumcised. It was a time when the tide was changing, many boys weren't circumcised. We preferred it, heard of others not done & having trouble with their foreskin. I believe it's also cleaner. My brother got his son done, my sisters did not get their boys done. One nephew had trouble with his foreskin.

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1 year ago
Seems like maybe it's more popular than the statistics show, maybe because there are no Medicare claims anymore? How was the process for you?

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1 year ago
There is no rebate from Medicare, hasn't been for sometime, was told the government doesn't want to fund the procedure. We had to go to Adel, from SA Country & pay privately.

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1 year ago
I have a very strong preference for my men being circumcised but would not circumcise any boys I had.
Just because your hubby had issues it doesn't mean your sons will. Most uncircumcised men go through life without it causing any problems.
If they do have issues there are treatments before you resort to circumcision.
If they decide they want to be circumcised when they're older then they have that option. My hubby had himself done when he was in his 20s and I love it :-)

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1 year ago
Thanks! I prefer circumcised too, but I usually hold hubby's foreskin right back as it's very long and gets in the way otherwise. Why did your hubby have himself done?

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1 year ago
He says he'd always hated having a foreskin. He grew up in the 1970s when almost all boys were done.
He says he didn't like the look of it when he was young and once he started having sex he found it got in the way and rolled around inside his girlfriends.
He loves it now being circumcised. It does look great 🙂 and he says it feels way better during sex with everything exposed.

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1 year ago
Thanks! Had a BF once with a very tight circumcision, and really liked that.

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1 year ago
Hubby says he often used to hold back his foreskin during sex before he was cut but making love after he was circumcised was infinilely better. See previous answer about why he had it done. tl;dr: he didn't like anything about having a foreskin.

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1 year ago
Re tight circumcisions, I had never really noticed the difference between circumcisions until one particular guy who didn't have much skin left and you couldn't move it much up and down. It really did look nice and felt good too!