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Never had an orgasm

Answered 1 year ago

I'm 34, have had sex with 10 men in my life and have been with my husband for 14 years and I've never had an orgasm.
When my husband and I have sex it feels good but he gets his rocks off and I never do. We don't do much foreplay unless it's in the shower, I like giving him oral but have stopped as he never gives me any. I'm so fucking over it and I'm at a point where I want to feel the best part (I'm told) of sex, I don't want to die and not ever experience an orgasm.

What are some ways that help you orgasm?


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1 year ago
You need to relax into the idea of allowing yourself to orgasm. This is not easy for everyone. Buy a nice simple, waterproof vibrator, get rid of the family for half a day so you don't feel the clock ticking at all, run yourself a deep bath, put on some music and then play with your new toy.

You don't have to spend a fortune on a vibrator, I've tried very expensive ones and very cheap one, my all time favourite cost under £20. I know I will never have an orgasm from penetrative sex it feels good but my clitoris is my key to orgasms. You're only 34 you have plenty of time to catch up!

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1 year ago
I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 40 and I did it myself. Don't expect anyone else to give you one. Sex is a team sport so even with a partner you have you help yourself. I honestly suggest getting yourself a good vibe. I got one that sucks the clit as just penitrating ones weren't enough. I needed serious clit stimulation to get off. Once I started and had my first one I knew what I needed to to to add to partners participation. He is not jealous of the vibe joining us as he knows its what gets me off. We have recently started going anal and the orgasms from that are a level I never know existed. Go yourself!

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3 years ago
Doggy style and rub your clit with your fingers. You have to be in the right mind set as well. Maybe watch a porn before or even during sex.

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3 years ago
I give my husband a blow job on my side so my Vagina is right by his face.As he starts giving me oral sexi I move my hips back and forth as fast or slowly as I need as he's licking,I tell him when I push up I want you to suck.If he's recovering a blow job he's really into it and when I am close to orgasm I make noises to let he know what he is doing is turning me on and don't switch up anything and soon after I have an orgasm!!!

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3 years ago
Try on top, grind on him rather than up and down. Focus on cumming yourself, hopefully he can last long enough. It'll be more focused on you and he'll still be nice and warm inside you.

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3 years ago
Find someone who will go down on you !! If that doesn’t help with bringing it on then sex after and while you are still hot you will have one
Oral and then sex is great

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3 years ago
See if you can give yourself one first

May need to see couples counseling to find out why he’s not into giving you pleasure

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3 years ago
I'm sorry. Most men i've found are selfish, you'll have take matters into your own hands.

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3 years ago
Seriously buy an Oz Wand. Google it. Life changing orgasms!